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Is It Time to Set Boundaries With Our Adult Children?

Is It Time to Set Boundaries With Our Adult Children?

Dear Penina, I’m at my wit’s end with my husband and our adult children. We…

Estranged From My Children After Divorce: What Can I Do?

Estranged From My Children After Divorce: What Can I Do?

Dear Penina, I’m a divorced dad in my 60s, and my heart aches over the…

When Marriage Feels Like a Tug-of-War Between Spouse and Family

When Marriage Feels Like a Tug-of-War Between Spouse and Family

Dear Penina, I’m desperately seeking guidance. My wife and I have been married for four…

We’re Drifting Apart, Can Our Marriage Be Saved?

We’re Drifting Apart, Can Our Marriage Be Saved?

Dear Penina, I’m reaching out in desperation, hoping you can offer some guidance. My marriage…

How Can I Heal a Marriage When I’m the Only One Trying?

How Can I Heal a Marriage When I’m the Only One Trying?

Dear Penina, My marriage is okay, but I believe it could be a lot better.…

When Grandma Has Opinions: Setting Gentle Boundaries for Wedding Planning Peace

When Grandma Has Opinions: Setting Gentle Boundaries for Wedding Planning Peace

Dear Penina, My oldest daughter’s wedding is coming up, and it is a very special…

Family Tensions, a Milestone and an Impossible Choice

Family Tensions, a Milestone and an Impossible Choice

Dear Penina, I really enjoy your column and hope you can help me. I have…

How to Set Boundaries With Compassion When Friendships Become a Burden

How to Set Boundaries With Compassion When Friendships Become a Burden

Dear Penina, I’m struggling with a friendship that has left me feeling trapped and anxious.…

Harmonizing In-Law Relationships and Spousal Dynamics

Harmonizing In-Law Relationships and Spousal Dynamics

Dear Penina, We have been married for six years and have two young children. Given…

Learning to Navigate Serious Illness Together

Learning to Navigate Serious Illness Together

Dear Penina, My husband was recently diagnosed with a serious illness, and he’s adamant that…

Love, Marriage and Mother-in-Law Dynamics: Finding the Right Balance

Love, Marriage and Mother-in-Law Dynamics: Finding the Right Balance

Dear Penina, I’ve been married for five years and I truly have a great marriage.…

Navigating Family Responsibilities Between Siblings

Navigating Family Responsibilities Between Siblings

Dear Penina, I enjoy reading your column and I hope you can help me with…

Addressing Shut-Downs in Your Marriage

Addressing Shut-Downs in Your Marriage

Dear Penina, Baruch Hashem, my wife and I are happily married, and we don’t have…

Ask for What You Need

Ask for What You Need

Dear Penina, I’m writing to you today with a question that’s been on my mind…

Connecting to a Daughter-in-Law

Connecting to a Daughter-in-Law

Dear Penina, About a year ago, our son got married to a wonderful young woman.…

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