My partner and I have worked with Penina Flug for nearly three years, and it's been one of the most meaningful investments we've made in our relationship. Using Emotionally Focused Therapy, Penina gave us a framework for understanding the patterns we were trapped in, and was generous with worksheets and resources that extended the work beyond our sessions. She created a safe, neutral space where we could be honest — even about the uncomfortable, painful things — and helped me realize my own role in our relationship's chaos, which became the real turning point. It required honesty, humility, and persistence, but the rewards have been profound. We've been together nearly 25 years, and I finally feel we're moving back toward being indestructible — this time, a healthy indestructible.